Process
How it works
A simple path from first message to a meetup — only if everyone is comfortable.
1
First chat
Send a short note with your first name, city, and what you are looking for. We talk privately — WhatsApp or email — and see whether the tone feels right for both of you.
2
Public meeting for a drink
If the chat goes well, we meet in a public café or bar. No expectations beyond conversation. This is a chance for everyone to feel the chemistry in person.
3
Agreeing boundaries
Before any private meetup, we confirm limits, preferences, and any health or privacy notes. Nothing moves forward without a clear yes from both partners.
4
Meetup only if everyone is comfortable
If anyone has doubts, we pause or stop. Comfort beats momentum. There is never an obligation to continue after the first chat or the public drink.